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 baccao ko inamaa-Na maoM
pairvaairk vaatavarNa ka p`Baava
p`ayaÁ doKa gayaa hO ik BaartIya pirvaaraoM maoM laD,ko AaOr laD,kI maoM bahut Baod barta jaata
hO. [sa GaRiNat Baod ko calato Aajakla laaoga AlT/asaa]ND yaa emaIinayaaoiTk d`va kI jaaĐca krvaa knyaa Ba`UNa hI naYT krvaa doto
hOM. yah bahut Gaatk hO AaOr p`kRitiva$w hO. samaaja kI Avaisqait ko ilae daonaaoM kI AavaSyakta
hO. na jaanao @yaaoM Aaja BaI BaartIya samaaja maoM baoTI ka pOda haonaa KuSaI kI vajah nahIM
haotI. yahaĐ tk ik ]sako Kana–pana pr BaI Kasa Qyaana nahIM idyaa
jaata‚ iSaxaa ko ilae BaI ]tnao p`ya%na nahIM haoto ijatnao ik laD,ko ko ilayao haoto hOM caaho vah laD,ko sao jyaada maoQaavaI
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hmaarI saMskRit hmaoSaa yahI isaKatI
Aa[- hO ik pirvaar ka vaatavarNa ijatnaa saMskarmaya AaOr svasqa haogaa baccao ka ivakasa BaI
]tnaa hI saMskarpUNa- AaOr svasqa haogaa. [sa ivaYaya pr bahut kuC ilaKa BaI gayaa ikntu
[sa ivaYaya kI saamaiyakta tba tk kma na haogaI jaba tk pirvaar naamak saMsqaa rhogaI AaOr manauYya ek saamaaijak p`aNaI
hO‚ pirvaar ko ibanaa vah Aist%va hIna hO.
pirvaar maoM phlaI AavaSyakta hO saamaMjasya kI‚ pirvaar ko sadsyaaoM ka vyavahar snaoihla va SaalaIna haogaa tao saMgaIt pOda
haogaa‚ Tkrava kI isqait maoM kaolaahla haogaa. AaOr manaaovaO&ainakaoM ko Anausaar saMgaIt maoM hIlaIMga pavar haotI
hO‚ kaolaahla ekaga`ta naYT krta hO.
pirvaar maoM k[- sadsya haoto hOM AaOr sabakI Éica Alaga–Alaga haotI hO. yaid saBaI ApnaI
$ica baccao pr laadoMgao tao ]sako pirNaama AjaIba sao haoMgao‚ baccao ka
vyai@t%va ibaKr kr rh jaaegaa‚ AaOr vah iksaI ek idSaa kao pkD, panao maoM
Asamaqa- mahsaUsa krogaa. saamanjasya ka yah Aqa- nahIM ik sabaka ek vyavasaaya
hao‚ saba ek hI $ica Apnaanao kao baaQya haoM. yahaĐ Aqa- yah hO ik
iBanna–iBanna
p`kRit‚ vyavasaaya‚ $ica ko haoto hue BaI prspr [tnaa SaalaIna talamaola hao ik
kao[- Tkrava kI isqait pOda na hao‚ iksaI kI BaI $ica kI kao[-
AcCI–baurI tulanaa na
hao‚ AaOr hr vyai@t ko saaqa Gar ko baccaaoM kao BaI ApnaI $ica ka
kaya- krnao kI svatn~ta hao baSato- ]sasao baccao kao kao[- haina na phuĐcatI
hao. eosao maoM ]sao baaQya krnao kI Apoxaa AcCo bauro phlauAaoM ko baaro maoM bataeM ijasasao vah svayaM yah ivaSlaoiYat krnao maoM saxama hao ik
@yaa ]sako ilae AcCa yaa buara hO.
baccao ka Apnaa vyai@t%va haota hO Agar ]sa pr maata–ipta yaa Anya sadsya Apnaa
vyai@t%va qaaopoMgao tao ]saka vyai@t%va ]Bar nahIM paegaa. ]sako sahja gauNa dba kr rh
jaaeoMgao. yah ibalakula spYT hao cauka hO ik ApnaI sahjata ko ivaraoQa maoM KD,a haokr
kao[- BaI vyai@t safla nahIM hao sakta hO. Agar baccao kI $ica klaa maoM hO AaOr Aap
]sa pr iva&ana qaaopoM tao vah bauiwmaana haoto hue BaI ]sa
xaO~ maoM ]cca yaaogyata nahIM haisala kr sakogaa. [tnaa hI nahIM
]saka vyai@t%va ivaGaiTt BaI hao sakta hO. ivaGaiTt vyai@t%va vaalaa baccaa svayaM tao AsaMtuYT haogaa hI‚ AiBaBaavakaoM ko ilae
sardd- BaI bana jaayaogaa. [sailae AavaSyak hO baccao ko manaaoiva&ana kao pZ,a
jaae. kuC doSaaoM maoM tao sarkar hI [tnaI sajaga haotI hO ik baccao kI sahja
$ica doK ]sako Aagao kI iSaxaa AaOr p`iSaxaNa ]plabQa krvaatI hO‚ AaOr eosao doSa ko
iKlaaD,I‚ ica~kar AaOr Anya p`itBaaeM camak kr ivaSvap`isaw haotI
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baccao kI BaavanaaAaoM ka dmana krnaa tao ek p`kar sao Anyaaya hI hO. [sasao ]samaoM manaaoivakRityaaĐ janma laotI hOM AaOr yahI manaaoivakRityaaĐ Anya $p maoM baahr AatI hOM. jaao baccao dmana ka iSakar haoto hOM‚ ]naka sahja ivakasa Ék jaata hO.
Asahjata iksa p`kar proSaanaI ka karNa banatI hO‚ [sa ivaYaya pr ek baccao ka ]dahrNa eosaa BaI hO. yah baccaa dsa vaYa- ka haonao pr BaI ibastr gaIlaa kr dota
qaa. vaOsao vah saamaanya‚ AcCI bauiw ka baalak qaa‚ samaJadarI kI baatoM krta‚ baD,aMo ka kha maanata‚ basa rat maoM saaoto samaya ibastr gaIlaa na krnao maoM vah Asahaya
haota. AnttÁ pirvaar vaalao ]saoo manaaoiva&anaI Da^@Tr ko pasa lao
gae. baataoM baataoM maoM pta calaa ik vah dadI ka A%yant laaD,laa hO AaOr dadI ko pasa saaota hO. Da^@Tr nao pUCa '' yao khaĐ saaonaa caahta hO.'' maaĐ nao kha ''saaonaa tao yao Akolaa caahta hO.'' basa Da^@Tr nao raoga pkD, ilayaa AaOr ]sakI salaah sao ]sa baalak kao ]sako manapsand vaatavarNa maoM Akolaa saulaayaa gayaa tao ]sakI yah Aadt CUT ga[-.
baccaa sarla qaa ]sakI baat saamanao Aaga[-‚ vayask jaiTla haoto jaato hOM vao baatoM‚ [cCaeM iCpato hOM‚ iCpanao sao raoga baZ,ta hO. svayaM Wara yaa Anya Wara dmana ek AiBaSaap hO ‚ [sasao gaM`iqa banatI hOM jaao ivakasa maoM baaQak haotI hOM. [sailae AavaSyak hO ik baccao kao Apnaa maaga- caunanao idyaa jaae ikntu [saka yah Aqa- kdaip nahIM ik baccaaoM kao maaga-dSa-na kI AavaSyakta hI nahIM.
kBaI–kBaI ]nakI sahja $ica dUsaraoM va svayaM ]nako ilayao Gaatk hao saktI
hO. baccaa iksaI caIja, kao taoD,nao kI ija,d kro AaOr maata–ipta baOzo doKto rhoM tao baccao maoM ]cCRMKlata pOda hao jaatI hO. eosao maoM
sahI–galat AaOr saMyama kI iSaxaa BaI AavaSyak hO. yaid vah kao[- caIja, taoD,o yaa Anya baccao kao pITo tao eosao maoM ]sao saMyat magar dRZ, haokr eosaa krnao ko nauksaana bataeM AaOr samaJaaeM.
Agar baccao ko )dya maoM pairvaairk saMskar haoMgao AaOr maata–ipta ko ilae Aadr haogaa tao vah eosaI galatI nahIM daohraegaa yaid daohrae BaI tao baar baar ]sao saMyama sao samaJaaeM‚ jaba rssaI kI rgaD, sao kueĐ ko p%qar pr inaSaana bana jaato hOM tao baccao tao kccaI ima+I ko samaana haoto hOM. AiBaBaavak [sa maamalao maoM AitvaadI hao jaato hOM‚ kuC A%yaiQak svatn~ta do doto hOM tao kuC A%yaiQak DaĐTto DpTto rhto hOM.
baccaa Apnao pirvaar ko vaatavarNa sao hI Apnao saamaaijak gauNaaoM ka ivakasa krta hO. AtÁ AiBaBaavakaoM ko ilae yah AavaSyak hO ik vao [sa dRiYT sao sajaga rhoM.
maata–ipta ko vyavahar ka Ap`%yaxa p`itibamba baccaaoM ko mana pr jaanao Anajaanao pD, jaata hO. Agar baD,o
CaoTI–CaoTI baataoM pr JaUz‚ durava–iCpava‚ prinanda ka sahara laoMgao tao baccaaoM ko vyavahar maoM Aaja nahIM tao kla pirlaixat haogaa hI.
ek AaOr mah%vapUNa- baat ivaYamata yaa Baod–Baava jaao maata-ipta na caahkr BaI kr baOzto hOM. bahut baar AiBaBaavak laaD,lao yaa AiQak ija,_I baccao ko saaqa ivaSaoYa AacarNa krto hOM. kao[- BaI vastu‚ yaa
imaza[–fla yaa caa^klaoT ]nhoM AiQak do idyao jaato hOM vah BaI [sa ihdayat ko saaqa ik vao Anya baccaaoM kao na bataeM. eosao maoM daohrI haina hO‚ baat iCpogaI nahIM AaOr ijasao AiQak imalaa hO vah dUsaro baccao sao baura bata-va krogaa AaOr dUsara yah gaaĐz baaĐQa laogaa ik maaĐ nao mauJao kBaI Pyaar ikyaa hI nahIM. laaD,lao yaa AiQak ija,_I baccao AiQak snaoh sao ij,a_I banato Anya baccaa yaa baccao ]poxaa sao Aaht hao ivad`aohI bana jaato hOM. yahI baat AQyaapkaoM ko ilayao BaI laagaU haotI hO‚ Aksar hr AQyaapk ka kao[- ivaSaoYa ip`ya Ca~ haota hO ijasasao Anya baccaaoM ko mana maoM ]poxaa ka Baava Aa hI jaata hO jaao baad maoM hIna ga`inqa maoM badla sakta hO. saMyau@t pirvaaraoM maoM jahaĐ baccao kao AcCo saMskar AaOr
imala–baaĐT kI Aadt imalatI hO vahIM Baod–Baava‚ tulanaa‚ Aitir@t Pyaar baccaaoM maoM kuC AsamaanyataeM BaI pOda krta
hO. Anaok Baa[-yaaoM ko baccao yaid eksaaqa rhto haoM tao saBaI baD,aoM ka yah kt-vya bana jaata hO ik ]namaoM iksaI p`kar ka Baod na ikyaa jaae. yahI Aagao cala pirvaar ko ivaGaTna ka karNa bana jaata hO. AtÁ baccaaoM maoM Baod Dalanao vaalaI baataoM sao bacanaa caaihyao‚ samaJadar laaoga Sau$ sao baccaaoM maoM samaanata AaOr sahyaaoga kI Baavanaa ko baIja Dalato hOM. vaOsao ek Avasqaa maoM baccao maoM sahyaaoga kI Baavanaa svatÁ hI haotI hO‚ vah tao baahrI p`Baava hI baccao maoM Baod ka Baava Dalato
hOM. purskar ek saImaa tk baccaaoM maoM saai%vak spQaa- ka Baava Bar sakto hOM‚ kuC laaoga [sao p`laaoBana ka naama do [sao ]icat nahIM zhrato. jahaĐ tk maOM maanatI hUĐ‚ ek saImaa tk yah p`yaaoga hainakark nahIM hO. purskar kao[- maĐhgaI yaa dula-Ba vastu hao yah AavaSyak nahIM‚ purskar‚ purskar kI trh hao‚ p`laaoBana kI trh na hao yah Qyaana rKoM. k[- AiBaBaavak baat-baat pr baccao kao p`laaoBana doto hOM‚ [sasao ]nakI Aadt ibagaD, jaatI hO AaOr vao ibanaa p`laaoBana ko kao[- kama nahIM krto. AaOr k[- AiBaBaavak svayaM maoM [tnaa vyast rhto hOM ik vao baccaaoM kI ]plaibQayaaoM pr ]phar tao dUr SaabaasaI tk nahIM doto eosao maoM iksaI BaI p`yaasa ko p`it ]nakI p`orNaa kma hao jaatI hO. Apnao iksaI baccao kao purskRt krto samaya ]sako Baa[- yaa bahna kao BaI iksaI AcCo kaya- kI p`orNaa doM AaOr AaSvast kroM ik jaba vah BaI kuC sarahnaIya krogaa tao AvaSya vah BaI eosao hI ]phar ka hkdar haogaa. ibanaa kuC ikyao ]sao ]phar na doM‚ Anyaqaa ]samaoM Akma-Nyata Gar kr jaaeogaI ik jaba ibanaa kuC ikyao hI ]sao BaI vaOsaa hI ]phar imalaa hO tao kuC kr idKanao kI @yaa AavaSyaktaŃ
hmaoSaa baccao kI AcCa[yaaoM kao p`ao%saaiht kroM. baccao maoM svaaiBamaana jagaanao ko ilae ]sakI p`SaMsaa kroM. hr baccaa Alaga haota hO AtÁ Agar vah pZ,nao maoM AaOsat hO tao KolakUd yaa ica~karI maoM AcCa haogaa‚ yaa ivanama` haogaa yaa Gar ko kamaaoM maoM maddgaar haogaa‚ AtÁ ijasa kaya- maoM vah AcCa hao ]sakI p`SaMsaa kroM AaOr ijasamaoM AaOsat hao ]sa kaya- kao $icakr trIko sao kra kr ]sao ]sa Aaor BaI p`oirt
kroM. A%yaiQak p`SaMsaa yaa JaUzI p`SaMsaa tqaa dUsaraoM ko samaxa baccao kI inanda krnao sao
bacaoM. dao baccaaoM kI tulanaa BaUla kr BaI na kroM. baat–baat pr ]nhoM dUsaro baccaaoM sao taOlanaa ]nho iJaD,knaa hIna Baavanaa kao janma do sakta hO. kma yaaogya baccao kao p`oirt kroM yaa ]sakI $ica ko xaO~ kao samaJanao ka p`yaasa kr ]sao ]sa idSaa maoM Aagao baZ,anao kao p`iSaxaNa yaa saaQana ]plabQa kraeM‚ SaOxaiNak yaaogyata kI mah<aa samaJaa ]sao pZ,nao kI p`orNaa doM‚ tqaa pZ,a[- kao $icakr banaanao ko ilayao Aaja tao [tnao saaQana hOM AcCI iktabaoM‚ SaOxaiNak iKlaaOnao‚ kmPyaUTr Aaid.
sahanauBaUit pakr tao ApMga baccao BaI p`gait kr laoto hOM.AtÁ Apnao kma yaaogya baccao ko saaqa sahanauBaUit pUNa- rvaOyaa rK ]sao Aagao baZ,nao kI p`orNaa doM.yah tao inaiScat hO ik saBaI baccaaoM kI yaaogyata samaana nahIM hao saktI.
p`ayaÁ doKa gayaa hO ik BaartIya pirvaaraoM maoM laD,ko AaOr laD,kI maoM bahut Baod barta jaata hO. [sa GaRiNat Baod ko calato Aajakla laaoga AlT/asaa]ND yaa emaIinayaaoiTk d`va kI jaaĐca krvaa knyaa Ba`UNa hI naYT krvaa doto hOM. yah bahut Gaatk hO AaOr p`kRitiva$w hO. samaaja kI Avaisqait ko ilae daonaaoM kI AavaSyakta hO. na jaanao @yaaoM Aaja BaI BaartIya samaaja maoM baoTI ka pOda haonaa KuSaI kI vajah nahIM haotI. yahaĐ tk ik ]sako
Kana–pana pr BaI Kasa Qyaana nahIM idyaa jaata‚ iSaxaa ko ilae BaI ]tnao p`ya%na nahIM haoto ijatnao ik laD,ko ko ilayao haoto hOM caaho vah laD,ko sao jyaada maoQaavaI hao.
SahraoM AaOr qaaoD,o jaaga$k vaga- maoM Aba QaarNaaeM badla rhI hOM. vah BaI ]na pirvaaraoM maoM jahaĐ maaĐ iSaixat hO‚ AiSaixat maaĐ baoTI kao Aaja BaI baaoJa maanatI
hOM. AtÁ BaivaYya maoM vah ivavaokSaIla s~I bana sako [sailae AavaSyak hO ik ]sao pUNa- iSaxaa p`aPt hao. pirvaar maoM baoiTyaaoM kao ek snaoihla vyavahar imalao‚ Apnao baaro maoM inaNa-ya laonao kI svatn~ta haonaI caaihyao. @yaaoMik laD,ikyaaĐ kaomala va Baavauk haotI hOM AtÁ ]nhoM pyaa-Pt svatn~ta ko saaqa vyavahairk iSaxaa BaI donao ka daiya%va maaĐ ka haota hO. pirvaar maoM ApnaI bahnaaoM ko p`it
maata–ipta tqaa Anya laaogaaoM ko sammaanajanak vyavahar sao saIK lao laD,ko AcCo vayask banato hOM AaOr samaaja kI hr s~I kao sammaana doto hOM‚ AaOr ]na laD,ikyaaoM ka Aa%maivaSvaasa gaja,ba ka haota hO ijanhoM pirvaar sao barabar ka djaa- AaOr sammaana imalata hO‚ vao ivaprIt pirisqait maoM BaI saMyama‚ vyavahairk AaOr saMskarpUNa- vyavahar krtI hOM.
pirvaar baccao kao bahut kuC dota hO. baccaa maata–ipta‚ dada–dadI‚
naanaa–naanaI‚ caacaa‚ maaOsaI‚ bauAa‚ maamaa Aaid ko naak–na@Sa hI nahIM ]nako vyavahargat gauNa‚ saMskar‚ $icayaaĐ‚ AadtoM BaI jaanao Anajaanao lao laota
hO. AtÁ ek baccao kao safla saamaaijak vyai@t banaanao maoM pUro pirvaar ka yaaogadana haota hO.
– sauQaa ranaI
frvarI 15‚ 2001
AiBaBaavak
AaOr ikSaaoravsqaa – AsaIma inaiQa
Asaurxaa puÉYaaoM maoM BaI – saImaa isanha
Aap samaJato hOM navajaat kI BaaYaa – AsaIma inaiQa
Aapko pit kOsao ipta hOMĆ
– AsaIma inaiQa
AaohŃ Aap kuC nahIM krtI
isaf- gaRhNaI hOMŃ – rajaI taomar
knyaa Ba`UNa ko p`it ËUr rvaOyao maoM kaOna ijammaodarĆ
– sauQaa ranaI
kamakajaI maihlaaeM banaama gaRhiNayaaM –
manaIYaa kulaEaoYz
dao baoiTyaaM – ek sauKd AnauBava –
manaIYaa kulaEaoYz
pit p%naI ko baIca samvaadhInata kI isqait –
manaIYaa kulaEaoYz
baccao AaOr maaĐ ko baIca ko snaoh kao p`gaaZ, krta hO stnapana
– sauQaa ranaI
baccao ko inamaa-Na maoM pairvaairk vaatavarNa ka p`Baava
– sauQaa ranaI
baccao JaUz @yaaoM baaolato hOMĆ – sauQaa
ranaI
baccaaoM ko CaoTo CaoTo Baya – AsaIma inaiQa
baccaaoM maoM ekaga`ta
kOsao jaagaRt kroM – sauQaa ranaI
maoro AnauBava – AnaIta jaaoSaI
SaOSava: kma- kI prakaYza – AsaIma inaiQa
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