Yaun Sambandh Aur Dampatya by Meera Chowdhry

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dosa–prdosa
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saaih%ya kaoYa

yaaOna sambaMQa AaOr damp%ya

Aaja jaIvana maoM sao@sa AaOr ihMsaa hI savaao-pir haotI jaa rhI hO‚ yahaM tk ik laaoga kao[- pi~ka BaI tBaI pZ,naa psand krto hOM jaba tk ik ]samaoM yao caTpTo ivaYaya Saaimala na ikyao gayao haoM. duBaa-gyapUNa- tao yah hO ik [na saba karNaaoM kI vajah sao sao@sa Aaja ek vyaapar bana kr rh gayaa hO. AiQakaMSa laaogaaoM ko ilayao maanaao yah Aama KrId frao#t sao AiQak kuC nahIM. mahja yahI nahIM damp%ya kI KuSahalaI kI naIMva BaI jaOsao jaIvana saaqaI kI yaaOna xamataAaoM pr Aa iTkI hO. iksaI yaugala ko damp%ya kI saflata–Asaflata ka BaI daraomadar BaI ]nako yaaOna jaIvana pr hI hO. Agar yahI zIk nahIM tao ivavaah kI saflata saMidgQa hao jaatI hO. [sako ivaprIt maOM yah saaocatI hUM ik Agar AapkI AapsaI samaJa baUJa AaOr damp%ya hI AcCa nahIM tao yaaOna jaIvana AcCa kOsao hao sakta hOÆ

Aaja ko yauvakaoM kao ivavaah sao phlao ApnaI yaaOna xamataAaoM kao isaw krnao kI icanta maoM kafI maanaisak dbaava sao gauja,rnaa pD,ta hO ik @yaa vao ApnaI BaavaI p%naI kao saMtuYT kr Apnao ivavaah kao saurixat rK sakoMgao. AaOr [sa p`kar ka maanaisak dbaava eosao maoM AapkI xamataAaoM AaOr sahja p`iËyaa pr Asar AvaSya Dalato hOM. eosao maoM sahja p`oma‚ p`oma na rh kr maa~ ek safla yaaOna p`iËyaa ka p`yaasa maa~ bana kr rh jaata hO AaOr Aap p`oma ko inatant p`akRitk AaOr AananddayaI AnauBaUit sao vaMicat haokr rh jaato hOM.

jahaM tk maora #yaala hO Aaja BaI sao@sa kao laokr yauvaaAaoM maoM Anaok galatfhimayaaM hOM‚ KasataOr pr hmaaro BaartIya yauvaaAaoM hI nahIM‚ samaaja maoM BaI. maata–ipta Apnao baccaaoM kao yaaOna iSaxaa donao kI ApnaI ija,mmaodarI sao ktrato hOM. maanaa ik kuC baatoM eosaI haotI hOM ik Aap Apnao baccaaoM sao saaf saaf khto saMkaoca mahsaUsa krto hOM pr kuC AaQaarBaUt baatoM vaO&ainak trIkaoM sao baccaaoM kao baataoM hI baataoM maoM samaya samaya pr samaJaa[- jaa saktI hOM.

yaaOna sauK kI saMtuiYT ek maRgamarIicaka bana gayaI hO ik ijasakI tlaaSa maoM laaoga ek sao AiQak ivavaahaoM kI Aaor Baaganao lagao hOM. maOM [sa baat sao Asahmat nahIM ik Alaga Alaga laaogaaoM kI Alaga–Alaga SaarIirk AavaSyaktaeM AaOr kma–jyaada dOihk xauQaa hao saktI hO‚ ikntu [saka samaaQaana ek hI ivavaah tqaa Apnao hI damp%ya maoM ek dUsaro kao jaana kr‚ ivacaar kr ZUMZa jaa sakta hO.

damp%ya maoM hr Anya pxa kI trh SaarIirk sauK BaI pirp@va haonao maoM samaya laota hO‚ jaba ek Antrala ko baad Aap ek dUsaro kI AavaSyaktaAaoM kao samaJanao lagato hOM‚ ek dUsaro ko sauK kao p`aqaimakta donao lagato hOM.

p`kRit maoM yaaOnaAanand kao BaI iksaI Kasa p`yaaojana ko inaiht inaima-t ikyaa gayaa hO‚ vah ek maa~ karNa hO- ivakasa – Aanand tao [saka sah ]%pad hO. AtÁ yaaOna sauK Apnao Aap maoM ek piva~ AaOr Aanandmaya ËID,a hO‚ yah [sako p`it Aapko rvaOyyao pr inaBa-r krta hO ik AapkI saaoca @yaa hO. sao@sa pUNa-tÁ BaavanaaAaoM sao jauD,I p`iËyaa hO‚ damp%ya va yaaOna sauK pr ikyao gayao AQyayana [sa tqya kao isaw krto hOM ik ivavaaiht yaugalaaoM ko baIca yaaOna sauK ko sabasao hsaIna AaOr sauKdayaI pla ]nako Apnao saaqaI ko saaqa hI‚ Apnao hI damp%ya maoM imalao hOM‚ na ik [sako baahr jaakr.

maorI ip`ya iktaba '' irlaoiTMga" ko laoKk p`ao elana raOSavao‚ ilaKto hOM ik " faorPlao [ja Aa]Tsaa[-D Aa^f d baoD$ma". maOM [sa baat sao pUNa-tÁ sahmat hUM. Pa`oma maoM DUba kr AaOr ek dUsaro ka #yaala rKto hue‚ BaavanaaAaoM ka Aadr krto hue hI saccaa yaaOnasauK p`aPt ikyaa jaa sakta hO. yahaM ek spYT Antr hO iksaI saaqaI kao panao kI kamanaa krnao maoM yaa mahja iksaI saaqaI kI mahja ja$rt mahsaUsa krnao maoM. jaba dao laaoga ek dUsaro kao p`oma krto hOM AaOr ek dUsaro ka Qyaana rKto hOM tao kovala SaarIrIk ja,$rtaoM ko ilayao hI nahIM varna Baavanaa%mak AavaSyaktaAaoM ko ilayao BaI‚ eosao maoM p`oma sauKkark AaOr saMtaoYajanak haota hO. dUsarI Aaor Agar mahja ek SarIr Bar kI AavaSyakta hI Aapkao pasa laatI hO tao eosao p`oma ka pirNaama mahja vaasanaapUit- kI trh haota hO.

Agar hma saBaI sao@sa AaOr [sasao jauD,o phlauAaoM kao samaJaoM tqaa sahI maUlyaaoM kao phcaana sakoM tao hma Apnao sauKd damp%ya ka laaBa ]za sakto hOM‚ Anyaqaa SaarIirk sauK kI maRgamarIicaka kI tlaaSa maoM hma Apnao damp%ya kao ]laJaa kr rKnao ko isavaa AaOr kuC nahIM pa sakto. ivavaah maoM sao@sa bahut mah%vapUNa- BaUimaka Ada krta hO AtÁ ijasa trh hma Apnao saaqaI kI Anya AavaSyaktaAaoM ka #yaala rKto hOM vaOsao hI ]sakI dOihk ja,$rtaoM ka BaI AavaSyaktanausaar #yaala rK kr hma jaIvana kao saMgaItmaya banaa sakto hOM.

hma p`oma kao yaa yaaOna sauK kao vyaapar yaa ekrsa banaa kr jaIvana kao duÁKd na banaalaoM – [sa baat kI gahra[- kao samaJanao ko ilayao Apnao damp%ya kI gahara[-yaaM samaJaoM.

– maIra caaOQarI
navambar 4‚ 2001