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naarI hI SaaoQa ka ivaYaya @yaaoMÆ

ijasa idna Aaidma s~I Anya puÉYaaoM kI laaolaup dRiYT sao bacatI Apnao iksaI ip`ya puÉYa kI saSa@t baaÐhaoM maoM ApnaI qarqaratI kaomala doh ilayao saurxaa maaMgatI isamaTI haogaI‚ ]saI idna puÉYa maoM AhM jaagaa haogaa. ]sanao ApnaI ip`yaa kI rxaa maoM ]na puÉYaaoM kao praijat tao kr idyaa haogaa‚ ApnaI saurixat baaÐhaoM maoM ifr ]sa s~I kao samaoT ilayaa haogaa‚ pr ]saI AhM nao saaocaa haogaa‚ AroÑ yah maoro barabar khaÐ hOÆ yah tao maorI saurxaa pr inaBa-r hOÑ

s~I hI tao puÉYa kI janmada~I hO. ]saI ko bailadana‚ doKroK va AmaRtpana kranao sao vah yaaOvana kI dhlaIja caZ,a hO. ifr BaI s~I Saaisat Apnao SaarIirk saaOYzva ko karNa hI kI ga[-. PauÉYa ko p`kRit p`d<a jaMgalaIpna pr yahI s~I ApnaI kaomalata kI prCaM[- Dala ]sao sahI maayanaaoM maoM [nsaana banaatI hO. ]samaoM jaao AhM jaagaa vah Aaja tk s~I kao hIna p`aNaI maana ]sakI xamataAaoM kao nakarta calaa Aa rha hO. mahadovaI vamaa- nao BaI kha qaa‚ " yaugaaoM sao puÉYa s~I kao ]sakI Sai@t ko ilayao nahIM‚ sahnaSai@t ko ilayao dND dota Aa rha hO."

yauga baItto calao gayao‚ laoikna s~I ko ilayao vahI Aaidma yauga rha. yaU ena Aao Wara GaaoiYat 1975 ko maihlaa vaYa- saoimanaar va gaaoiYzyaaoM maoM phlaI baar s~I ko [d- igad- banaayaa gayaa AaBaamaNDla KiNDt huAa. ijasa s~I kao dovaI kh kr sambaaoiQat ikyaa jaata hO vaastva maoM ]sakI isqait iktnaI daÉNa va dyanaIya hO‚ yah [saI vaYa- p`kaSa maoM Aayaa. inaÁsandoh [saI vaYa- bahut saI jaagaÉk maihlaaAaoM nao is~yaaoM ko ]%qaana ko ilayao kuC kr gauja,rnao ka saMklp ilayaa.

maihlaa vaYa- sao BaI phlao mauMba[- kI samaajaSaas~I Da^º naIra dosaa[- nao 1952 maoM SaaoQa ikyaa qaa. ivaYaya qaa ' AaQauinak Baart maoM naarI '. Apnao SaaoQa ko daOrana vah naarI ko lahulauhana AMt-mana maoM JaaMktI calaI ga[-. ]nhaoMnao hI hr vaga- maoM yah doKa ik naarI daoyama djao- kI naagairk haonao kao AiBaSaPt hO. ]nhoM lagaa ik yah samasyaa [tnaI ivakT hO ik ijanhoM puÉYa samaJa hI nahIM sakta.

1968 maoM naIra dosaa[- ko p`yaasaaoM sao maumba[- ko esa ena DI TI ka^laoja maoM Baart ka p`qama maihlaa SaaoQa kond` Kaolaa gayaa. ijasakI vao svayaM 1986 tk inado-iSaka rhIM. 1980 maoM kanapur ivaSvaivaValaya maoM yah kond` Kaolaa gayaa. 1981 maoM naarI SaaoQa kond` ka phlaa sammaolana krko yaU jaI saI pr dbaava Dalaa gayaa tao vah ]nhoM Anaudana donao ko ilayao tOyaar hao gayaa. Baart ko baa[-sa ivaSvaivaValayaaoM maoM Aba tk naarI kond` Kaolao jaa cauko hOM.

naIra jaI batatI hOM‚ " $sa jaOsao doSa maoM jahaÐ vaYaao-M tk 'kmyaUinaj,ma' rha hO‚ vahaÐ kI is~yaaoM nao BaI batayaa ik baahr kama krto samaya tao s~I va puÉYa kamaroD haoto hOM‚ laoikna Gar Aato hI vah kamaroD puÉYa pit bana kr ApnaI hukUmat calaanaa caahto hOM. Amaoirka kI is~yaaoM nao jaba Aandaolana ikyaa tao 1960 sao ]nhoM inaNa-ya laonao vaalao savaao-cca pdaoM pr AasaIna ikyaa jaanao lagaa. [sao hma piScama ka phlaa Aandaolana kh sakto hOM. Aaja yah isqait hO ik vahaÐ maihlaa kao BaI raYT/ kiva GaaoiYat ikyaa jaanao lagaa hO."

[nhIM saamaaijak ivasaMgaityaaoM sao maihlaaAaoM ka ek ivad`aohI vaga- ]Bara. 'roiDkla foimainasT'‚ 'ivamaonsa ilaba' ko naaro bauland hue. [nhoM pUra ivaSvaasa qaa ik ]nakI jaOivak rcanaa ko karNa hI ]nako hk,‚ ivacaaraoM pr puÉYaaoM ka AaiQap%ya rha hO. ]naka ivaSvaasa qaa ik vao naarI%va ko baahr Aa kr saamaaijak ZaMcaa taoD, faoD, doMgaI. tBaI [sa AaiQap%ya sao maui@t haogaI. ]nhaoMnao baa)ya saaOndya- p`saaQanaaoM ka baihYkar ikyaa‚ laoikna yao maihlaaeM zaosa sabaUt nahIM ZUMZ pa[-M.

naIra jaI batatI hOM‚ " hmaara Aaja ka naarI sammaolana samaajavaadI hO. Baart maoM s~I kao yahI saMskar idyao jaato hOM ik ]saka jaIvana puÉYa koind`t hO. [sa puÉYa p`Qaana samaaja maoM [saI karNa s~I ko puÉYa sao sambanQa sahja na haokr Asaamaanya hO. iptRsa<aa vyavasqaa sao ga,rIba s~I AiQak pIiD,t hO. @yaaoMik ek tao vah iptRsa<aa sao dbaI hO‚ dUsaro ga,rIbaI sao. s~I kao yaid Apnaa str baZ,anaa hO tao ]sao [sa vyavasqaa maoM Apnao Aaiqa-k str kao baZ,anaa haogaa."

duinayaa ko sabasao Sai@tSaalaI doSa Amaoirka kI is~yaaoM nao Apnao vaja,Ud ko haonao kI saSa@t AiBavyai@t dI. 'hala Aaf d foma' ko $p maoM nyaUyaak- Sahr ko pasa 'saoinaka falsa' ko pasa isqat hO. yah Sat p`itSat is~yaaoM sao sambainQat AiBalaoKagaar hO. ijana is~yaaoM kao puÉYap`Qaana samaaja ]nakI p`itBaa ko Anausaar p`itYza na do saka‚ ]nako }pr SaaoQa krko ]nasao sambainQat saamaga`I ]nakI maUit- ko saaqa rKI hO. ]nako jaIvana ko mau#ya sandoSa kao ]nhIM sao imalatI jaulatI Aavaaja, maoM kOsaoT maoM Top krko vahaÐ rKvaayaa gayaa hO.

baa[-sa ivaSvaivaValayaaoM maoM Kaolao gayao naarI SaaoQa kond` ka mau#ya ]_oSya yahI hO ik naarI kI jaao vat-maana isqait hO yaa laaogaaoM kao ]sakao daoyama naagairk saaocanao ka jaao trIka hO‚ ]samaoM badlaava laayaa jaayao. naarI xamata ka sahI ivakasa hao‚ ijasasao vah BaI doSa ko Aaiqa-k‚ saamaaijak‚ rajanaIitk va klaa%mak xao~aoM maoM Apnaa pUNa- yaaogadana kr sako.

[na kond`aoM ka yah BaI p`yaasa rhta hO ik ivaSvaivaValayaaoM ko pirsar maoM ]sako baahr kI naarI sao jauD,o jvalant p`SnaaoM kao ]zayaa jaayao. ]nhoM hla krnao ko BaI rasto ZUMZo jaayaoM‚ saaqa hI saaqa kuC eosaI gaitivaiQayaaM kI jaaeM‚ jaao ik s~I maoM kuC Aqa-pUNa- maUlyaaoM ka baIjaaraopNa kr sakoM.

naarISaaoQa kond` [sakao BaI Apnaa ]<ardaiya%va banaayao hue hOM ik ilaMgaBaod ko AaQaar pr iSaxaa na dI jaayao. p`%yaok kao eosaI iSaxaa imalao‚ ijasamaoM ilaMga‚ Qama- va saamaaijak str maoM kao[- BaodBaava na maanaa jaayao. yao kond` Aksar sqaanaIya s~I saMgaznaaoM kI sahayata laoto hOM.

" @yaa [na kond`aoM maoM naarI kI eoithaisak pRYzBaUima kao BaI SaaoQa ka ivaYaya banaayaa gayaa hOÆ"
" ibalakulaÑ svatn~ta saMga`ama maoM ranaI laxmaIbaa[- nao Baaga ilayaa qaa‚ yah tao saBaI jaanato hOM. ikntu tolaaMganaa ko 1898 ko AandaolanaaoM maoM s~I kI baohd saiËya BaUimaka rhI‚ yah baat naarI SaaoQa kond` Wara jaba ek pustk p`kaiSat hu[- tba pta lagaI."
" kuC Anya baataoM kao BaI p`kaSa maoM laanao ka kama cala rha haogaa."
" hma hmaoSaa ek isawant laokr calato rho hOM ik vaOidk kala maoM naarI kao barabar ka sammaana idyaa jaata rha hO. [sailayao hmaaro yahaÐ gahna AQyayana cala rha hO ik s~I kao Saaisat krnaa kba AarMBa huAa. [sa ivaYaya maoM eoithaisak tqyaaoM va p`acaIna saaih%ya kI KaojabaIna kI jaa rhI hO. baaOw Qama- kala va palaI ko Bai@t yauga ko saaih%ya ko AaQaar pr ]sa samaya kI naarI kI isqait ka AQyayana ikyaa jaa rha hO."
"yao SaaoQa iksa baat pr ja,aor do rho hOMÆ"
"samaaja maoM s~I kI BaUimaka ibalakula naopqya maoM calaI ga[- hO‚ [sailayao sabasao phlao tao kaya- kI pirBaaYaa hmaoM ifr sao krnaI haogaI. ek s~I ka saara idna Gar ka kama krto inakla jaata hO‚ laoikna ]sa kaya- sao Aqaao-paja-na nahIM haota. [sailayao vah kama kama nahIM maanaa jaata. jaao s~I Gar saMBaala kr ek rcanaa%mak kama kr rhI hO‚ ]saka maUlya samaaja kao samaJa maoM Aaegaa‚ tBaI s~I kI BaUimaka Aga`NaI banaogaI. Aagao ko vaYaao-M maoM jaba s~I kao gaRhNaI bana kr BaI p`itYza imalaogaI‚ tba hI vah [sa laaMCna sao mau@t haogaI ik ' Gar pD,o pD,o @yaa kr rhI qaIÆ "
" ek baat tao tya hO ik s~I kao SarIr ko karNa saurxaa kI ja,$rt hO."
" yah baat maOM BaI maanatI hUÐ ik Gar sao naarI kao saurxaa imalatI hO‚ laoikna [saI Gar maoM AiQakaMSa is~yaaoM kI isqait SaaocanaIya hO. ek bastI kI s~I sao hmanao baat kI tao vah baaolaI ik vah ek BaoiD,yao ko saaqa majabaUrI maoM rhtI hO. yaid nahIM rhogaI tao baahr mauJao saaO BaoiD,yaaoM ka saamanaa krnaa pD,ogaa. ifr yah kOsaI saurxaa hO. yah tao pirvaar nahIM‚ Baya sao AaoZ,a huAa kvaca hO. [nhIM karNaaoM sao hma dbaava Dala rho hOM ik s~I kao Gar maoM‚ samaaja maoM gaRhNaI kI BaUimaka inaBaato hue BaI ]icat sammaana imalao."
" [Qar Aap s~I kI p`itYza kI baat krtI hOM‚ ]Qar s~I bahut sao sqaanaaoM pr doh kao BaunaatI Aagao baZ, rhI hO."
" yah tao Anaaidkala sao calaa Aa rha hO. Aaja tao p`laaoBana ka yauga hO. iksaI BaI kImat pr baulandI haisala krnao kI tmannaa laaogaaoM ko AndrGar kr ga[- hO. naarI BaI tao samaaja ka ek AMga hO‚ laoikna AiQaktr is~yaaM Apnaa maistYk }Mcaa krko sammaana sao jaInaa caahtI hOM. hmaaro SaaoQa ka ivaYaya eosaI hI naairyaaÐ hOM."
" Aapnao jana s~I pr SaaoQa ikyaa qaa ]na idnaaoM sao Aba tk kI isqait maoM badlaava Aayaa hO."
" ibalakulaÑ hmaaro maIiDyaa vaalao Aba s~I kI samasyaaAaoM kI baat bahut ja,aor Saaor sao ]zanao lagao hOM. Aaja kuC is~yaaoM maoM jaagaÉkta Aa rhI hO. yah p`maaiNat haonao pr ik vao s~I kao hI janma doMgaI‚ pit ko khnao pr BaI Ba`UNa h%yaa nahIM krnao dotIM."

1990 maoM baD,aOda ko maharajaa sayaajaIrava ivaSvaivaValaya maoM s~I AQyayana SaaoQa kond` kI sqaapnaa kI ga[-. Aa[-yao doKoM‚ iksaI BaI ivaSvaivaValaya maoM yao kond` kOsao Aakar laota hO. [sasao jauD,I maihlaaAaoM ko @yaa ivacaar hOM va yahaÐ kOsao kama haota hOÑ
[sa kond` kI inado-iSaka p`aofosar Da^º Aimata vamaa- khtI hOM‚

" laaogaaoM kI ga,latfhmaI hO ik BaartIya naarI SaaoQa kond` isaf- ivadoSaaoM kI nakla krko Kaolao gayao hOM. hmaaro yahaÐ tao barsaaoM phlao maha%maa gaaÐQaI nao s~I Sai@t ka Aavhana ikyaa qaa. tBaI kmalaa dovaI ca+aopaQyaaya‚ AÉNaa Aasaf AlaI‚ saraoijanaI naayaDU‚ ivajayaa laxmaI piNDt jaOsaI maihlaaAaoM kao kuC krnao ka maaOka imalaa. maoro K,yaala sao dyaanaMd sarsvatI‚ rajaa ramamaaohna raya va gaaÐQaI jaI s~I iSaxaa va ]nako AandaolanaaoM ko phlao saja-k hOM."
"phlao BaI s~I samasyaaAaoM pr puÉYaaoM nao SaaoQa ikyao qao. ifr yao naarI SaaoQa kond` @yaaoMÆ"
" vao saba puÉYa ko Apnao dRiYTkaoNa qao. Aba is~yaaÐ hI [na kond`aoM maoM yaqaaqa-pUNa- ZMga sao kama kr rhI hOM. hma BaartIya naarI kI samasyaa kao hI p`aqaimakta doto rho hOM‚ ikntu ivadoSaaoM ko naarI SaaoQa kond`aoM sao ivacaaraoM ko Aadana p`dana evaM ]nakI AcCI yaaojanaaAaoM kao Apnao yahaÐ laagaU krnao sao kt[- prhoja nahIM."
" AapkI raya maoM ivakasaSaIla doSaaoM va p`gaitSaIla doSaaoM kI is~yaaoM kI samasyaaAaoM maoM kuC Antr hOÆ"
" ivakasaSaIla doSaaoM kI s~I Sai@t tao [saI baat maoM lagaI hu[- hO ik iksa trh ApnaI saIimat Aaya maoM Gar calaayao‚ jabaik saSa@t raYT/aoM kI s~I Apnao AiQakaraoM ko ilayao laD, rhI hO. hmaaro kond` sao BaI Anya ivacaarQaaraAaoM vaalaI is~yaaM jauD, rhI hOM. maOM Baart kI ]sa s~I kao badlanaa caahtI hUЂ jaao ik Gar kao JaaD, paOMC kr Bagavaana ko Aagao idyaa ba<aI krnao kao hI jaIvana kI sampUNa-ta maananao ko Ba`ma maoM hI jaI rhI hO."
" @yaa Aapkao nahIM lagata ik pirvaar kao ek maaЂ ek p%naI kI AavaSyakta hOÆ"
" inaiScat hI vah raola ]sao krnaa hI caaihyao. p`kRit nao ]sao santana ]%pnna krnao kI Sai@t dI hO‚ laoikna baccao kI doKBaala krnao maoM puÉYa kao sahyaaoga donaa caaihyao."
" Aapka ijasa p`ant maoM naarI SaaoQa kond` hO‚ ]saI gaujarat maoM hr tIsaro idna ek s~I kI Aa%mah%yaa kI Kbar haotI hO."
" yahaÐ kI s~I AiQak svatn~ hO. Aa%mah%yaaeM‚ tlaak jaIvana kI na[- rahoM ZUMZnao kI AarMiBak htaSa p`itiËyaaeM hOM. [sako baad kuC na kuC AcCa inaklaogaa‚ jaao s~I kao ek '*yaUmana baI[-Mga' kI trh sqaaipt krogaa."

baD,aOda ko [sa kond` maoM kaya-Saalaa‚ saoimanaar Aayaaoijat kr ko naarI samasyaaAaoM pr ivacaar ivamaSa- haota hO. SaaoQa pirNaamaaoM ka doSa va ivadoSaaoM ko naarI SaaoQa kond`aoM sao Aadana p`dana ikyaa jaata hO. Anaok doSaI ivadoSaI ivaWanaaoM kao baulaa kr maihlaa sambanQaI BaaYaNa Aayaaoijat ikyao jaato hOM. [na kaya-ËmaaoM kI $proKa inado-iSaka ko inado-Sana maoM banatI hO evama\ kond`aoM ko p`aoga`ama Aa^ifsar [na kond`aoM kI ]pyaaoigata ko sambanQa maoM p`aoga`ama Aa^ifsar naindnaI BaT\Tacaaya- banaatI hO. hmaarI kaoiSaSa yah rhtI hO ik ivaSvaivaValayaaoM ko saBaI Baaga hmaaro kaya-ËmaaoM maoM sahyaaoga kroM va Baaga laoM. svayaMsaovaI saMsqaaAaoM ka sahyaaoga laoM. sabasao sahyaaoga ko karNa eosaa samaUh bana gayaa ik gaujarat sarkar sao hmanao baala klyaaNa kI kuC yaaojanaaeM AarMBa krvaa[-M‚ ijasa trh baoijaMga ko Anra-YT/Iya maihlaa sammaolana maoM s~I va svaasqya sambainQat Anaok p`aojao@T AarMBa hue. s~I pr baZ,to hue ihMsaavaadI A%yaacaar hmaaro SaaoQa ka ivaYaya banaoMgao va hmalaaogaaoM kI kaoiSaSa yah hO ik jaOsao raYT/Iya maihlaa Aayaaoga hO yaa maharaYT/ maoM p`adoiSak maihlaa Aayaaoga hO‚ ]saI trh gaujarat maoM BaI p`adoiSak maihlaa Aayaaoga ka gazna ikyaa jaayao.

naarI ek sampUNa- [ka[-‚ ek vyai@t%va banao‚ yah tao zIk hO‚ laoikna jaagaÉkta ko naama pr pirvaar vaalaaoM sao baoAdbaI‚ badtmaIja,I‚ fOSana ko naama pr ]_Ndta pr BaI ]sao santulana ZUMZnaa haogaa.

khto hOM ik s~I ko Andr rhsya kI [tnaI kndraeM hOM ik ]naka rhsya jaanato jaanato vah svayaM zgaI saI rh jaatI hO. Acarja hO puÉYaaoM Wara Saaisat samaaja maoM ivad`aoh kI duMduBaI bajaanao vaalaI [sa naarI ko idla pr Saasana BaI vahI puÉYa krta hO‚ jaao kmaMaiDMga psa-naoilaTI vaalaa haota hO. yahI puÉYa jaba ]sa pr Saasana krnao lagata hO‚ tao s~I BaavanaaeM Aaht haotI hOM.

'i~yaacair~ma dovaao na jaanasya'‚ Aqaa-t ijasa i~yaa cair~ kao dovata BaI na samaJa sakoM‚ ]saI cair~ pr SaaoQa krnao naarI hI inakla pD,I hO. [na maihlaa SaaoQa kond`aoM ko maaQyama sao pirNaama @yaa haogaa‚ yah tao BaivaYya hI bataegaa.

naarI SaaoQa kond` ko Aitir@t hr Sahr maoM naarI saMgazna ek sakara%mak BaUimaka Ada kr rho hOM. gaujarat kI Ag`aNaI saMsqaa 'saihyar' kI ek saMsqaaipka tRiPt Saah khtI hOM‚ " hmaaro dsa baarh vaYaao-M ko saMGaYa- ka ek zaosa pirNaama yah hO ik phlao jaao laaoga naarI kI samasyaa ko ilayao ]zI Aavaaja,aoM kao ek fOSanaobala Zkaosalaa samaJato qao‚ kma sao kma Aba samaaja maoM‚ rajanaIit maoM va maIiDyaa maoM [na p`SnaaoM pr ivacaar ikyaa tao jaanao lagaa hO. caahoM kuC BaI idKanaa hI @yaaoM na hao."    

naIlama kulaEaoYz
Ap`ola 7‚ 2002 


 



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