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pit–p%naI ko baIca
samvaadhInata kI isqait

na jaanao iktnao vaYaao-M sao laaoga khto AaOr mahsaUsa krto Aae hOM ik pit AaOr p%naI damp%ya kI gaaD,I ko dao pihyao hOM. [nako baIca tartmya AitAavaSyak hO. ivavaah ko AarMiBak kuC vaYa- tao ek dUsaro kao jaananao phcaananao maoM hI baIt jaato hOM‚ vahaM Baava‚ spSa-‚ ek dUsaro ka #yaala rK kr samvaadaoM kI pUit- hao jaatI hO‚ haMlaaik samvaad BaI baohtr BaUimaka inaBaato hOM vahaM ek dUsaro kao jaananao maoM. [na vaYaao-M maoM pit p%naI ko baIca kI AsahmaityaaM‚ JagaD,o saamaanya hOM. pr baIca ko vaYaao-M maoM ek eosaI isqait AatI hO jaba mahsaUsa haota hO ik saaro samvaad cauk gayao‚ yahaM tk ik JagaD,o AaOr AsahmaityaaM‚ iSakayatoM BaI . 

samvaadhInata kI [sa isqait maoM pit p%naI mahja AavaSyak samvaadaoM ko kao[- AaOr baat nahIM krto. bahut saI baatoM ek dUsaro kao batanao kI AavaSyakta hI mahsaUsa nahIM krto. idna Bar ko kaya-klaapaoM maoM daonaaoM vyast rhto hOM‚ Saama kao AavaSyak vaata-laap huAa tao huAa‚ baccaaoM ko baaro maoM‚ Gar ko baaro maoM basa. rat dOihk ja,$rtoM pasa laa[-M tao laa[-M Anyaqaa saao gayao.

damp%ya ko lambao saaqa maoM vao dao WIp bana kr rh jaato hOM. iksaI rasaayainak p`iËyaa kI saamyaavasqaa kI saI yah isqait zIk nahIM. yahaM tk ik yah isqait Ktro ka hI saMkot hO. pit ApnaI Aaiqa-k maamalaaoM kao Cupanao lagato hOM‚ kaya-xao~ sao imalao tnaavaaoM kao BaI‚ @yaaoMik phlao tao AavaSyakta hI @yaa ]sao batanao ik ifr Agar batayaa BaI jaae p%naI ko pasa samaya hI nahIM yaa mana hI nahIM ik vah pUC lao ik " @yaa baat hO Aap kuC proSaana hOMÑ" yaa " @yaa maOM AapkI sahayata kr saktI hUMÆ" 

pi%nayaaM Cupanao lagatI hOM Apnao tnaava‚ pit kao bata kr haogaa @yaa‚ vah samaJaoMgao hI nahIM AaOr pit ko kaOnasaa samaya AaOr maUD hO ik vahI pUC lao‚ " qak jaatI haogaI idna Bar." " AaAaoÑ ja,ra pasa baOz jaaAao."‚ "tibayat zIk tao hO naaÑ " daonaaoM ko baIca iksaI kOifyat kI BaI jagah nahIM rh jaatI.

yah Araocak }baa} isqait jahaM damp%ya ko ilayao hI Ktro kI isqait hO vahIM pit p%naI ko maanaisak svaasqya ko ilayao BaI hainakark hO‚ @yaaoMik pit p%naI ek dUsaro ko ilayao maanaisak sambala haoto hOM. baccao bahut samvaodnaSaIla haoto hOM vaao daonaaoM maata ipta ko snaoh kI kma jyaada haotI maa~a sao bahut jaldI p`Baaivat haoto hOM. yah }ba daonaaoM maoM sao iksaI ek kmaja,aor saaqaI kao ivavaahotr sambaMQa kI Aaor AakRYT kr saktI hO. 

maOM nao k[- dmpi<ayaaoM kao [sa isqait maoM doKa hO yaa ik jahaM damp%ya ko dsa saala baIto vahaM eosaI isqait hao jaatI hO ik vao ek dUsaro kao baqa-Do kaD- donaa yaa ivaSa krnaa tk vyaqa- samaJa laoto hOM. enaIvasa-rI maoM psa-nala ]pharaoM kI jagah Gar ko ilayao kuC baD,I caIja, KrId laI jaatI hO. iksaI samaaraoh tqaa paTI- maoM vao Aato saaqa hOM ifr Alaga Alaga Apnao samaUh maoM vyast hao basa jaato samaya imalato hOM. ek dUsaro kI tarIf ikyao Arsaa baIt jaata hO. AaiKr samvaadhInata kI yah isqait QaIro QaIro kba Aa kr iGar jaatI hO pta hI nahIM calata. pta nahIM Ahma yaa }ba yaa ek hd tk ek dUsaro kao jaana laonao ko baad kI saMtRPtta ³saocauroSana´ kI isqait kama krtI hO [sa samvaadhInata kI isqait ko pICo. yaa tInaaMo ka imalaa jaulaa p`Baava.

daonaaoM maoM sao ek ka Ant-mauKI haonaa BaI dUsaro kao lambao ekalaap ko baad AaiKrkar caup rhnao kI isqait maoM phuMcaa dota hO. yaa lagaatar ek–dUsaro kao na samaJa panao kI isqait maoM daonaaoM caup rhnaa baohtr samaJa laoto hOM. lambaI vyastaeM‚ qakana BaI ek vajah hO.

maoro pD,aOsa maoM ek dmpi<a rhto hOM. vahaM pit kao Aksar daOro pr rhnaa haota hO‚ jaba vah laaOTta hO tao maOM p%naI maoM kao[- ]%saah nahIM patI. pit Aakr baccaaoM maoM vyast hao jaata hO p%naI Apnao kama maoM. khnao kao daonaaoM ]ma` ko caalaIsavaoM dSak maoM BaI bahut AakYa-k hOM AaOr KUbasaUrt yaugala haonao ka evaaD- BaI jaIt cauko hOM. pr samvaadhInata ]nako baIca saaf–saaf idKa[- dotI hO. ]nakI baoTI bahut Ant-MmauKI hO AaOr p`itBaavaana haonao ko baavajaUd sToja pr Aanao maoM ihcaktI hO.

mauJao bahut GabarahT haotI hO [sa isqait sao‚ maOM bahut baatUnaI AaOr vyavahairk hUM‚ maoro bahut saaro ima~ hOM. maoro pit Ant-mauKI tao nahIM pr kma baaolato hOM‚ kuC eosaI baatoM jaao ik mauJao proSaana kroM yaa tnaava doM ]nhoM vao iCpato Aae hOM. caaho vao Aaiqa-k tnaava haoM yaa ]nako Apnao pirvaar kI baatoM yaa kayaxao~ kI baatoM. mauJao yah lagaatar naagavaar gaujarta qaa‚ maOM ]nasao [sa baat pr Aksar JagaD, laotI qaI.

j,yaadatr yaugala vyavahar maoM ek dUsaro sao qaaoD,o bahut iBanna haoto hI hOM. jahaÐ maOM pit p%naI ko baIca pardiSa-ta kI ihmaayatI hUM AaOr ]nhoM raomaansa ko naama pr idKavao sao prhoja hO. bahut jyaada laaogaaoM ko Gar Aanaa jaanaa BaI ]nhoM kma psand hO,. paTI- maoM DaMsa Flaaor pr vao AMt maoM Aanao vaalao vyai@t haoto hOM‚ jabaik maOM DaMsa kI bahut SaaOkIna hUM. 

maOM nao har nahIM maanaI hO maOM nao ek hd tk ]nhoM badla ilayaa hO. Aba vao kma hI iCpato hOM mauJasao. tarIf krnaa nahIM BaUlato. DaMsa ko ilayao BaI Aba phla kr laoto hOM. kBaI kBaI Apnao trIko sao Pyaar ka p`dSa-na krko mauJao caaOMkanao BaI lagao hOM. yahaM tk ik kivata ilaKnaa isaKa ilayaa hO maOM nao.

Aba vaao maorIo ima~aoM AaOr ]nako pirvaar sao imalato hOM‚ maOM ]nako pircataoM kao Aksar davat do dotI hUÐ. ]nhoM nahIM psand Aaiqa-k tnaava ko maamalao mauJa tk phuMcanao donaa tao maOM svayaM Andaja, lagaa kr ]na idnaaoM Apnao AaOr gaRhsqaI ko Kca- kma kr laotI hUM. ]nhoM kuC dor kI Saaint mauhOyyaa kranao ko ilayao svayaM hI baccaaoM kao laokr GaUma AatI hUM.

mauJao KuSaI hO ik maOM nao saama dama dND Baod naIit sao ivavaah ko dsa saala tk tao samvaadhInata kI isqait kao Aanao nahIM idyaa hO‚ AaOr Aagao Aba yah isqait nahIM AaegaI yah mauJao ivaSvaasa hO @yaaoMik hma daonaaoM nao hI ek dUsaro ko Anausaar ek dUsaro ko ilayao Zalaa hO.

Aap ko ivavaah kao iktnao BaI vaYa- @yaaoM na hue haoM‚ Aap [na savaalaaoM ko ]<araoM maoM Apnao damp%ya maoM samvaadhInata ko Ktro kao ZUMZ sakto hOM.

  • iktnao idna phlao Aapnao dor rat tk yaUM hI ApnaI‚ daostaoM kI‚ bacapna‚ ka^laoja ko idnaaoM kI baatoM kIM qaIMÆ

  • iktnao idna phlao Aapnao saaqa baOz saMgaIt saunaa‚ baagavaanaI kI‚ caaya pI AaOr AKbaar kI iksaI Kbar pr cacaa- kIÆ

  • iktnao idna phlao Aapnao iqayaoTr jaakr naaTk‚ iflma doKI yaa saMgaIt samaaraoh ka AanaMd ilayaaÆ

  • iktnao idna phlao Aap daonaaoM nao puranao elabama inakala kr doKo qaoÆ

  • AaiKrI baqa-Do kaD- Aapnao kba idyaa qaa yaa ]sa idna Aapnao ]nako ilayao ivaSaoYa @yaa ikyaaÆ

  • iktnao idna phlao AapkI ]nasao tkrar hu[- qaIÆ

  • iktnao idna phlao Aapnao ]nasao ]nako kaya-xao~ yaa gaRhsqaI kI proSaainayaaoM pr baat caIt kI qaIÆ

  • iktnao idna phlao Aapnao saaqa zhaka lagaayaa qaaÆ

  • @yaa Aap ]nasao Apnao maamalaaoM maoM raya laoto hOMÆ

  • mahja ]nakI KuSaI ko ilayao kao[- ek kama jaao [sa saPtah Aapnao ikyaaÑ

  • Aap iktnao p`itSat Apnao maamalao ]nhoM batato hOM‚ iktnao iCpa jaato hOM yaa AavaSyak nahIM samaJatoÆ

  • @yaa Aap ]nako tarIf ko kaibala haonao pr tarIf krto hOMÆ

basa eosao hI iktnao p`Sna hOM jaao samvaadhInata kI th maoM haoto hOM. samvaadhInata kI isqait sao bacanao ko ilayao daonaaoM ko saaJao p`yaasa AavaSyak hOM. [sako ilayao p`yaasa ta%kailak na haokr AarMBa sao hI haonao caaihyao. 

pit–p%naI ko irSto maoM daostanaa vyavahar bahut maayanao rKta hO. daost ka matlaba sahI maayanao maoM daost ik hr pirisqait maoM Aap kMQao sao kMQaa imalaa kr KD,o haoM saaro Ahma %yaaga kr. galaityaaM AaOr galatfhimayaaM hr daostI ka AMtrMga ihssaa hOM‚ [nhoM dUr ikyaa jaanaa caaihyao magar daostanaa trIko sao naa ik kTaxaaoM AaOr tnaavaaoM ko jairyao. AaOr saunanao kI klaa hr vyavahairk kao safla banaatI hO‚ damp%ya kao BaI‚ Apnao jaIvanasaaqaI kao saunaoM. ApnaI BaI khoM‚ vaata-laap kao ekalaap na bananao doM. 

AaOr damPa%ya maoM }ba sao bacanao ko ilayao jaIvantta dUsarI Sat- hO. damp%ya kI sajaIvata ko ilayao saaqa saaqa kuC na kuC nayaa krto rhoM. caaho bahut idnaaoM baad ek dUsaro ko saaqa iflma hI @yaaoM na doKoM. ek dUsaro ko ilayao kuC KrId laoM. bahut idnaaoM baad SaadI ka elabama inakala kr doK laoM. saOkND hnaImaUna sao baohtr kuC BaI nahIM hao sakta‚ baccaaoM kao kuC idna nainahala CaoD, kr hao jaae ek iT/p 'Kjaurahao' kI. damp%ya kao iktnaa hI samaya @yaaoM na hao jaae‚ janmaidna yaa enaIvasa-rI pr kaD- AvaSya doM yaa ek fUla ko saaqa hI sahI ivaSa ja,$r kroM. iktnaI hI vyastta @yaaoM na hao‚ p`yaasa kroM kuC mau#ya %yaaOhar AaOr janmaidna Aaid pr Aap AvaSya Gar pr manaaeM. yao CaoTI CaoTI MKuiSayaaM saaqa saaqa baaMToM‚ yahI jaIvana kao ]%saah dotI hOM.

Ahma AaOr cauPpI sao kuC hla nahIM haota. Apnao Ahma kao AaOr cauPpI kao kzaor na banaaeM. naaraja,gaI kuC GaNTaoM tk tao jaayaja, hO idnaaoM maoM [sao na badlaoM. naaraja,gaI maoM kh sauna laonaa sadOva caup rhnao sao baohtr haota hO. ek tao AapkI naaraja,gaI kI vajah saaqaI kao pta calatI hO‚ ]sa pr p`itiËyaa maoM Aap ]sao ApnaI safa[- ka maaOka BaI do doto hOM. ibanaa kho ibanaa batae basa idnaaoM tk mauMh fulaa kr baOz jaanao sao Aapka maanaisak tnaava tao baZ,ogaa hI saaqa hI saaqaI BaI proSaana rhogaa ik eosaa @yaa huAa ik… baat ifr samvaadhInata kI SauÉAat tk phuMca jaaegaI. jaba tk Aap nahIM bataeMgao ik Aap iksa baat sao icaZ, rho hOM tao saaqaI kao kOsao pta calaogaa. maanaa ik vah hmasafr hO‚ bahut kuC vah Aapko ibanaa kho samaJata Aayaa hO pr hr baar vah samaJa lao yah ja,$rI nahIM‚ ]sao kBaI na samaJa Aae tao Aapkao kh kr batanaa hI caaihyao. Apnao Ahma ko saaqa saaqa kBaI kBaI ]sako Ahma kao mah<aa donaa BaI saIKoM. ]sako caup hao jaanao pr Aap manaa laoM. manaanao maoM daonaaoM maoM sao iksaI kao kMjaUsaI nahIM krnaI caaihyao. caaho kuC samaya baad hI sahI. naaraja,gaI ka Aalama ek dao GaNTo sao jyaada na iKMcao [saka Kyaala rKoM.

p`oma saMvaad kroM‚ ja,$rI nahIM ik hr dsa imanaT pr Aaya lava yaU khoM‚ pr Apnao p`oma kao samaya samaya pr ApnaI baataoM sao BaI AiBavya@t kroM @yaaoMik Aapka saaqaI Aapko iËyaaklaapaoM sao tao jaanata hI hO ik Aap ]sao p`oma krto hOM‚ pr kBaI kBaI saunanaa AcCa lagata hO. tarIf kI baat hao tao khnao sao na ihcakoM. Aap caahto hOM ik AapkI kao[- tarIf kro tao phla Aap kroM. lava naaoT\sa ilaKnao kI kao[- ]ma` nahIM haotI…damp%ya maoM raomaansa hI cauk jaae tao vah damPa%ya kOsaaÆ 

tnaavaaoM AaOr samasyaaAaoM kao jaIvanasaaqaI sao iCpanaa ]icat nahIM., bailk ]sasao raya laoM. ]sao baovakUf yaa maamalao sao AnaiBa& samaJa kr na CupaeM. vaastuisqait samaJaa kr Apnaa tnaava baaMToM AaOr raya laoM. bata donao pr Aapka jaIvanasaaqaI Aapkao Gar maoM tnaavariht maahaOla donao maoM laga jaaegaa AaOr Aap ApnaI samasyaa ka hla Kaoja hI laoMgao. yah kBaI na saaocaoM ik ]sao bata kr Aap ]sao duÁKI kr doMgao. dao idmaaga imala kr baohtr rasto Kaojato hOM AaOr maanaisak sahara tao doto hI hOM.

ek dUsaro maoM inat nayaa Kaojanao ka kao[- AMt nahIM. vyai@t%va tao samaud` sao BaI gahro haoto hOM‚ ek dUsaro ko baaro maoM nayaa jaananao kI tlaaSa basa K%ma na hao. Aap kBaI yah na maana laoM ik basa bahut jaana ilayaa [nhoM…Aba @yaa bacaa hO. vah Kasa naja,r hO Agar Aapko pasa tao Aap Apnao ip`ya kao hr idna nayaa paeMgao. hr idna Aap gaaOr kroM Aap ]namaoM nayaa Aayaama paeMgao. kuC sakara%mak tao kuC nakara%mak.

jaba saPtpdI ko saat kdma saaqa calao hOM tao Apnao saaqaI kao jaI jaana sao‚ Aa%maa AaOr doh sao Apnaa laoM. hr AcCa[-‚ baura[- ko saaqa‚ ]sako jaanao Ajaanao AtIt AaOr vat-maana ko saaqa. hr samaya pr saaqa doM‚ kizna samaya maoM‚ tnaava maoM‚ Avasaad maoM. Aap Apnao sakara%mak vyavahar ko saaqa ]sakI baura[-yaaoM kao BaI AcCa[yaaoM maoM badla sakto hOM Agar basa Aap [tnaa Qyaana rKoM ik 'vah vyavahar kBaI na kroM jaao ik Aapkao Apnao ilayao hI naapsaMd hao'.  Agar Aapkao psand nahIM ik Aapko pirvaar vaalaaoM kao laokr vah kao[- kTaxa kro tao‚ phlao Aap hI eosaa na kroM. vah krta rho tba BaI nahIM‚ ek idna svayaM hI ]sao Ahsaasa hao jaaegaa. samaJaaeM AvaSya ik yah Aapkao psand nahIM.

jaIvanasaaqaI kao jaayaja, svatn~ta doM‚ ]sao Apnao baaro maoM inaNa-ya laonao kI‚ qaaoD,a samaya Akolao ibatanao kI‚ Apnao SaaOk Apnaanao kI‚ bailk p`oirt kroM ik vah Apnao BaUlao ibasaro SaaOk ifr sao Sau$ kr sako. [sa trh sao Aap BaI Apnao ilayao 'ba`IidMga sposa' pa sakoMgao. ApnaI ÉicayaaM baaMToM ek dUsaro sao.

vaYaao-M maoM damp%ya kao nahIM baaMQaa jaa sakta‚ [sao bahnao doM. nadI BaI tao jaba pva-taoM sao inaklatI hO toja, bahava sao bahtI hO ifr maOdanaaoM maoM Aakr nahraoM‚ CaoTI naidyaaoM ko janma maoM baMT jaatI hO‚ ifr samaud` tk phuMcato phuMcato QaIr gaMBaIr hao jaatI hO‚ pr bahtI rhtI hO. p`aOZ,avasqaa maoM damp%ya sabasao maQaur haota hO‚ jaba baccao Apnao pOraoM pr KD,o hao jaato hOM. samvaadhInata kI isqait Agar [sa Avasqaa tk Aa phuMcao tao bahut kYTkarI haota hO. [sailayao eosaa na haonao doM @yaaoMik yahI samaya haota hO jaba jaIvana Bar kI vyaa#yaa ivaSlaoYaNa saaqa baOzkr krnaI haotI hO. yah samaya hO‚ samaya ko ABaava maoM Apnao CUT gayao SaaOk saaqa saaqa pUro krnao ka.

damp%ya kI maQaurta AaOr kTuta Aapko jaIvana ko hr phlaU pr p`Baava DalatI hO. Aapko vyai@t%va‚ kaya-SaOlaI‚ maanaisak–SaarIirk Avasqaa‚ saamaaijak sambaMQa‚ baccaaoM ko p`it Aapko vyavahar Aaid pr. AaOr samvaadhInata kTuta nahIM tao maQaurta BaI nahIM dotI hO. damp%ya kI hr Avasqaa maoM samvaadhInata dUrsqa p`Baava CaoD,tI hO‚ saMBava hao tao samvaadhInata kI isqait Aanao hI na doM‚ Agar Aa jaae tao [sao BaaMp kr ApnaI Aaor sao phla kr dUr krnao ka p`yaasa kroM AaOr Apnao jaIvanasaaqaI sao [sa baaro maoM cacaa- AvaSya kroM. 

damp%ya kao klakla krtI nadI yaa gaunagaunaato Jarnao kI trh ijayaoM.

manaIYaa kulaEaoYz
idsambar 19‚ 2001


AiBaBaavak AaOr ikSaaoravsqaa
– AsaIma inaiQa
Asaurxaa puÉYaaoM maoM BaI – saImaa isanha 
Aap samaJato hOM navajaat kI BaaYaa – AsaIma inaiQa
Aapko pit kOsao ipta hOMÆ  – AsaIma inaiQa  

AaohÑ Aap kuC nahIM krtI isaf- gaRhNaI hOMÑ – rajaI taomar  
knyaa Ba`UNa ko p`it ËUr rvaOyao maoM kaOna ijammaodarÆ – sauQaa ranaI 
kamakajaI maihlaaeM banaama gaRhiNayaaM – manaIYaa kulaEaoYz 
dao baoiTyaaM – ek sauKd AnauBava – manaIYaa kulaEaoYz 
pit p%naI ko baIca samvaadhInata kI isqait – manaIYaa kulaEaoYz 
baccao AaOr maaÐ ko baIca ko snaoh kao p`gaaZ, krta hO stnapana – sauQaa ranaI 
baccao ko inamaa-Na maoM pairvaairk vaatavarNa ka p`Baava – sauQaa ranaI 
baccao JaUz @yaaoM baaolato hOMÆ – sauQaa ranaI  
baccaaoM ko CaoTo CaoTo Baya – AsaIma inaiQa 
baccaaoM maoM ekaga`ta kOsao jaagaRt kroM – sauQaa ranaI   
maoro AnauBava – AnaIta jaaoSaI  
SaOSava: kma- kI prakaYza – AsaIma inaiQa 


 



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