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AiBaBaavak AaOr ikSaaoravsqaa

CaoTI CaoTI baat pr bahsa. Acaanak Apnao trIkaoM kao mah%va dokr maata ipta sao ivaraoQa krnaa‚ caaho vah pZ,nao ka trIka hao yaa‚ Apnaa kmara saMBaalanao ka‚ yaa kpD,o phnanao ka ikSaaor Acaanak Apnao maata ipta kI raya maananaa baMd kr doto hOM AaOr yahI saMkot hOM ik Aap jaana laoM ik Aapko baccao kI ikSaaoravasqaa kI vah ]laJaanao vaalaI kizna Avasqaa Aa ga[- hO jahaĐ Aapkao qaaoD,a satk- AaOr vyavahairk haonaa hI haogaa. Agar qaaoD,a saa Qyaana doM AaOr qaaoD,o vyavahairk trIkaoM sao hma Apnao ikSaaor haoto baccao kao saMBaalaoM tao hma Apnao baccao kao ek AcCo‚ samaJadar ikSaaor ko $p maoM baD,a kr sakto hOM.

yah vah ]ma` hO jahaĐ baccao Apnao vyai@t%va ko p`it sajaga haonao lagato hOM‚ maata ipta kI jagah Aba vao Apnao daostaoM AaOr baahr ko laaogaaoM yaa iksaI iKlaaD,I yaa iflmasTar sao p`Baaivat haonao lagato hOM. ]nhoM maata ipta ko trIko puranao laganao lagato hOM. Acaanak Apnaa ivad`aoh p`diSa-t krnao lagato hOM.

Aajakla AiQaktr maata ipta Apnao baccaaoM kI ikSaaoravasqaa kI SauÉAat sao qaaoD,a proSaana hao jaato hOM ]nhoM lagata hO ik Acaanak hmaaro AcCo Balao‚ Aa&akarI baccao ka yah @yaa huAa. jabaik [sakI AavaSyakta nahIM hO yah ek Avasqaa hO baccao ko vyai@t%va ko ivakasa kI‚ yahaĐ hmaoM sahyaaogaa%mak rvaOyyaa Apnaanaa haogaa. jahaĐ Aap baccao ko vyavahar kI vajah sao proSaana hOM‚ @yaa Aap saaoca sakto hOM ik baccaa svayaM Apnao maoM Aato Anajaanao harmaaonala badlaava sao svayaM proSaana hao sakta hO. vah Kud ek ]laJana sao gauja,r rha haota hO‚ AtÁ yah pirvat-na kI Avasqaa maata ipta AaOr baccao tInaaoM ko ilayao caunaaOtI pUNa- hO.

ek ikSaaor [sa Avasqaa maoM svayaM kao maata ipta ko p`Baava sao mau@t kr ek Alaga vyai@t ko $p maoM sqaaipt haonaa caahta hO‚ ]sao haonao doM. yah ivad`aoh nahIM hO yah ek trIka hO ]naka Apnao Aapkao ek baccao kI jagah Aba ek vyai@t samaJanao kI SauÉAat ka. [samaoM Aap ]nhoM sahayata kroM.

jaldbaajaI maoM p`itiËyaa na kroM
Apnao ikSaaor haoto baccao kI phlaI ivad`aohpUNa- hrkt pr jaldbaaja,I maoM kBaI p`itiËyaa na kroM. Aap jaOsao jaOsao ]na pr ApnaI naapsaMdgaI qaaopoMgao vah AaOr AiQak ivaraoQa kroMgao. Aap AaOr naaraja, haoMgao AaOr vao pUrI trh ivad`aohI bana jaaeMgao. hr TInaejar Alaga Alaga trh ka haota hO‚ vao ivarasat maoM imalao Apnao gauNaaoM ko Anau$p tqaa Apnao Apnao baa)ya jagat sao p`Baaivat haokr ek Alaga iksma ko vyai@t haonao kI ivakasa p`iËyaa sao gauja,r rho haoto hOM. hao sakta hO jaOsaa Aap caahto hOM yaa Aap Apnao j,amaanao maoM rho haoM vah ]sasao BaI baohtr vyai@t banao. Aap jaldbaaj,aI maoM p`itiËyaa kr ]sakI [sa ivakasa p`iËyaa kao baaiQat kroMgao. @yaaoMik yahI tao samaya hO jaba Aapka baccaa phlao sao AiQak svatn~‚ catur AaOr baD,a hao rha hO‚ ]sako harmaaonsa kI AiQak saPlaaya ]sao pirp@va banaa rhI hO. zIk hO Agar vah ApnaI saurxaa kI ija,mmadarI pr kBaI qaaoD,a dor sao Gar laaOTo yaa saubah saubah vah ]zto hI Apnaa kmara saaf na kro‚ phlao ApnaI Éica ka kama kr lao. Agar vah Apnao kmaro maoM AjaIba sao paosTr lagaata hO lagaanao doM. kao[- baat nahIM Agar Aajakla vah Aapko saaqa DayainaMga Tobala pr Kanao kI jagah Apnao kmaro maoM Kanaa lao jaakr Kata hO yaa dor sao Kata hO. vah vahI baccaa hO jaao Apnao janma ko samaya sao Aapko saaqa rha hO‚ ]sako badlaavaaoM kao qaaoD,a samaya doM. vah vahI hO AaOr vahI rhogaa jaOsao Aapnao ]samaoM saMskar Dalao hOM‚ ]sao ApnaI svatn~ta AaOr baD,o haonao ka daiya%va ]za laonao doM.

AiBaBaavak hI banao rhoM
Aap iktnaa BaI caah laoM ik Aap baccao ko saaqa daostanaa banao rhoM laoikna AnttÁ jahaja ko kPtana Aap hI haoto hOM. maanaa ik Aap Apnao baccao kI raya laoto hOM laoikna AMitma inaNa-ya tao Aap hI ka haota hO naa. AaOr yahI sahI hO. Agar Aapka baccaa khIM saaiqayaaoM ko saaqa dor rat tk paTI- yaa ip@car ko ilayao baahr rhnaa caahta hO tao…Aap daost kI trh ]saka laaOTnaa ]sakI majaI- pr nahIM CaoD, sakto. Aap phlao hI jata doM ik hmaaro Gar ko inayama yao hOM‚ AaOr Agar Aap paTI- maoM jaanaa caahto hOM tao ApnaI saurxaa kI ija,mmaodarI pr jaaeM AaOr rat dsa bajao sao phlao laaOT AaeM. AaOr Agar Aap baoTI ko maata ipta hOM tao CaoD,nao laonao jaanao ka Qyaana rKoM AaOr jahaĐ tqaa ijana ko saaqa vah jaa rhI hO vahaĐ ko laaogaaoM AaOr maahaOla ko baaro maoM jaanakarI AvaSya lao laoM. halaaMik kBaI kBaI laD,kaoM ko maamalao maoM BaI eosaI jaanakarI rKnaa AavaSyak hao jaata hO.

AavaSyak haonao pr hI baMidSaoM rKoM
baojaa iksma kI baMidSaoM svasqa Asar nahIM DalatI baccaaoM pr. Agar Aapka baoTa lambao baala rKnaa caahta hO yaa iksaI AjaIba iksma ko jaUto laonaa caahta hO tao kr laonao doM. [samaoM kao[- haina nahIM., yaa AapkI baoTI maokAp T/aya krnaa caahtI hO yaa kao[- nayao sTayala kI D/osa phnanaa caahtI hO tao yah inaNa-ya ]sa pr CaoD, doM. yah saba vyai@t%va ko ivakasa maoM Saaimala hO AaOr [sasao baccao kao kao[- haina nahIM phuĐca rhI @yaaoMik ]sako ÍoND sak-la maoM yahI cala rha hO. laoikna haĐ Agar Aapkao AaBaasa hao ik iksaI gaoT–TUgaodr maoM jahaĐ Aapkao AaSaMka hao ik D/ga yaa iD/M@sa hao sakto hOM yaa kuC eosao ima~ jaao yaaOna sambaMQaaoM kao laokr qaaoD,o Kulao haoM ]nako saaqa jaanao ko ilayao Aap saIQao saIQao manaa kr sakto hOM. jahaĐ tk baccao ko BaivaYya AaOr AcCa[- ka savaala AaD,o na Aayao Aap ]nhoM ]sa hd tk svatn~ CaoD, doM. jaOsao fOSana‚ daostaoM ka cayana‚ iflma yaa iDskao jaanaa‚ baqa-Do paTI-ja,‚ ka^laoja ko gaoT TU gaodsa-‚ naa^valsa pZ,naa Aaid
pr baMidSa na lagaaeM. haĐ galat saMgat‚ ASlaIla pustkaoM‚ vaobasaa[TaoM‚ caOnalsa‚ D/ga AaOr Saraba Aaid jaOsao AakYa-NaaoM ko ma_onaja,r Aap ]na pr Qyaana AvaSya doM AaOr jahaĐ Aap kao SaMka hao vahaĐ Apnaa kD,a inaNa-ya saunaa doM ik‚ " yahI Aapko Balao ko ilayao baohtr inaNa-ya hO‚ ijasao ik Aap ABaI samaJa panao maoM Axama hOM."

maata ipta ekta rKoM
k[- baar maata ipta baccaaoM ko p`it vyavahar maoM ek nahIM haoto‚ jahaĐ kBaI ipta baccaaoM kI phlaI ]D,ana kao svasqa maanato hOM tao maata saurxaa ko p`it icaintt hao jaatI hO. eosao maoM baccao fayada ]zato hOM yaa jaao AiBaBaavak naa khoM ]nako p`it raoYa pala laoto hOM. AtÁ baccaaoM ko baaro maoM Aapka inaNa-ya saaJaa hao. baccao kI iksaI maaĐga pr daonaaoM Akolao maoM baat kroM AaOr Apnao Apnao pxa rK kr ek saimmailat inaNa-ya laokr baccao kao bataeM.

hr baat kao gaMBaIrta sao na laoM
CaoTI CaoTI baataoM kao Aap Apnao TInaejar ka ivad`aoh na samaJaoM. [sako pICo kao[- saada saI vajah BaI hao saktI hO. Agar AapkI paTI- ip`ya baoTI Acaanak kho ik "Aaja maOM paTI- nahIM jaa]MgaI" tao Acaanak ]sao TInaejar irbaOilayana na samaJa baOzoM. pUCoM‚ hao sakta hO vah Ék kr ApnaI p`o@TIkla fa[-la pUra krnaa caahtI hao. yaa ]sao maaisak Qama- ko idnaaoM maoM baahr Ana[-ja,I lagata hao. yaa hao sakta hO vahaĐ Aba vah ApnaI ]ma` ko baccao na pakr baaor hao jaatI hao. ]sa pr ivaSvaasa kroM. Agar Aapka baoTa Apnao iksaI daost ko saaqa dor tk pZ,naa caahta hO tao ]sa pr ivaSvaasa kroM. yah vah samaya hO jaba Aapka " baobaI " baD,a hao gayaa hO AaOr Aap baccao AaOr AiBaBaavak kI Avasqaa sao baahr Aa gayao hOM. hao sakta hO Aapko ikSaaor baoTo yaa baoTI kao Aapka caUmanaa‚ dularanaa psand naa Aae. yaa hr va@t paOiYTk Kanao kao laokr iKT iKT na psand Aae tao Aap [sao gaMBaIrta sao na laoM. Aba Aap ek na[- Avasqaa maoM hOM. [saka Aanand laoM Apnaa vah samaya yaad krko.

kba hao sahI samaya Apnao ikSaaor baoTo yaa baoTI sao baat krnao ka
yah ja,$rI nahIM ik Aap Apnao baoTo yaa baoTI kao samaJaanao ko ilayao sar sao panaI gauja,r jaanao tk [Mtja,ar kroM. ik yao naaObat Aa jaae ik Aapko baoTo kao toja, baa[-k calaanao ko ca@kr maoM iksaI puilasa sToSana sao faona krnaa pD,o. yaa AapkI baoTI Aapkao raokr batae ik ]sako baa^yaÍoND nao ]sao bargalaa kr SaarIirk sambaMQa sqaaipt krnao ka p`yaasa ikyaa. [sasao bahut phlao hI Aapkao [na ivaYayaaoM pr baat krnaI AavaSyak hO.

baccaaoM maoM saMskar Dalanaa ek lambaI p`iËyaa hO‚ ijatnaa jaldI hao sako [sao AarMBa kr doM. AaOr ikSaaoravasqaa tk Aato Aato ]nhoM
Gar ko saMskaraoM AaOr inayamaaoM sao Avagat kra doM. baccaaoM sao ]sa vyavahar pr baatcaIt kroM ijasakI Aap ]nasao Apoxaa rKto hOM‚ jaOsao dor rat laaOTnaa‚ sahI ima~ta‚ laD,kaoM–laD,ikyaaoM kI ima~ta kI saMskargat saImaaeM‚ yaaOna sambaMQa‚ pZ,a[- AaOr kOiryar Aaid. kBaI kBaar DayainaMga Tobala pr dor tk baat krnao ko ilayao sahja hI ek ivaYaya calaa doM‚ ijasa va@t Gar ko saBaI sadsya maaOja,Ud haoM. sahja AaOr p`sannata ko maahaOla maoM baat kroM. baIca baIca maoM hlka fulka hasya BaI haonao doM.

kBaI kBaI baccaaoM sao Aapka ivaraoQa BaI hao tao maahaOla hlka rKoM. gamaa-–gamaI- yaa tnaava ikSaaoraoM ko maanaisak svaasqya ko ilayao zIk nahIM. laD,a[- JagaD,a yaa toja Aavaaja, maoM DaĐT kr vaatavarNa baaoiJala na krko kD,a inaNa-ya sahjata sao saunaa kr vahaĐ sao hT jaaeM. yahI p`BaavaSaalaI trIka hO. bahsa krko ]nakI barabarI na kroM.

[na kuC maUlaBaUt baataoM kao Qyaana maoM rK Aap Apnao baccaaoM kao baohtrIna ikSaaor bananao maoM sahayata kr sakto hOM.     

 – AsaIma inaiQa
janavarI 6‚ 2002


AiBaBaavak AaOr ikSaaoravsqaa
– AsaIma inaiQa
Asaurxaa puÉYaaoM maoM BaI – saImaa isanha 
Aap samaJato hOM navajaat kI BaaYaa – AsaIma inaiQa
Aapko pit kOsao ipta hOMĆ  – AsaIma inaiQa  

AaohŃ Aap kuC nahIM krtI isaf- gaRhNaI hOMŃ – rajaI taomar  
knyaa Ba`UNa ko p`it ËUr rvaOyao maoM kaOna ijammaodarĆ – sauQaa ranaI 
kamakajaI maihlaaeM banaama gaRhiNayaaM – manaIYaa kulaEaoYz 
dao baoiTyaaM – ek sauKd AnauBava – manaIYaa kulaEaoYz 
pit p%naI ko baIca samvaadhInata kI isqait – manaIYaa kulaEaoYz 
baccao AaOr maaĐ ko baIca ko snaoh kao p`gaaZ, krta hO stnapana – sauQaa ranaI 
baccao ko inamaa-Na maoM pairvaairk vaatavarNa ka p`Baava – sauQaa ranaI 
baccao JaUz @yaaoM baaolato hOMĆ – sauQaa ranaI  
baccaaoM ko CaoTo CaoTo Baya – AsaIma inaiQa 
baccaaoM maoM ekaga`ta kOsao jaagaRt kroM – sauQaa ranaI   
maoro AnauBava – AnaIta jaaoSaI  
SaOSava: kma- kI prakaYza – AsaIma inaiQa 


 



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